Saturday August 27, 2011
So my incredible 1 month trip to Zimbabwe has come to an end, but it’s effect lives on. My understanding of it’s impact will be in process for a while.
It is difficult to know where to begin, or how to put the month into a summary of words. One can describe the stark beauty of the place, or the endless sky of stars…or an African sun rise or would the sunset be better? The subtle and not so subtle smells, sounds, or images? All these create parts of the whole, but the incredible and life changing part come in the human encounters.
Some of you might not choose to travel to a developing country, some of you have yet to have the opportunity, and many could tell their own stories. For me there are two important realities that make my opportunity possible, one I am a nurse and this has opened so many doors for me. There is never a day that I regret the great privilege that I have in being a nurse, both in foreign lands and here at home. Secondly I have a community of family and friends who love and care for me, whom encourage, and support me including financially. With out this, these mission trips would either not be possible or would be immensely difficult. I am so grateful, and know how blessed my life is. Thank you.
Either in emails or in FB comments a number of people have said “you are amazing” I tend to want run when this is said. In reality I feel rather un amazing. Not worthy of that label. Time after time in the midst of a simple shona hut among some of this earths poorest people I was treated like I was someone special. Yet I felt like it was always my honor to be invited into their world. Really these folks who eek out a meager subsistence life are the truely amazing ones. I have mentioned two people in the Blog already in telling their stories I hope you can appreciate how I am humbled by their lives.
Mrs. Dzapasi she is small woman of 60 years, although you would probably have guessed her to be 70+. The harsh realities of Zimbabwe have taken a toll. She is the mother of eight, 4 sons and 4 daughters. Three of her sons live stones throw away in adjacent huts. The daughters have moved to their husband’s villages. It is the custom in Zimbabwe to carry children on your back. In one smooth motion they seem to hoist the child up off the ground and on to a stooped back. The child is then wrapped in a blanket, towel or whatever available cloth they have. On many occasions Mrs. Dzapasi had a grandchild on her back as she went about her daily chores of life. Little girls begin doing this for their younger siblings and cousins at a very young age. In fact it is a rare moment when a women is not carrying a child or something on their head. My memories of Mrs. Dzapasi capture her in motion. After hiking to a cave with her son and new daughter-in law she in fact had a grand child strapped on as she knelt over an open fire baking bread and making us tea. Out of what they hardly have they always freely shared. Then there was the trip to her garden…we walked for about 20 minutes through the dusty fields where we first found her daughter in laws hoisting water up from the well and hand washing piles of laundry in tubs to be carried back on their heads… and another 10 minute walk brought us to the family garden. Each day she makes several trips to pick fresh greens for lunch and dinner or to water. Today she finds that the cows have broken through the gate and eaten all her greens to the ground. She must wait for them to grow or replant. Luckily her sons have large gardens to provide for her. The garden is positioned about 20 feet from another well. Once a day she dips a 10-gallon size bucket into the well and heaves the water down a small trench towards the garden. When enough water has reached the garden she then repositions herself over the water and with a bowl throws water at the garden plants. Life is purely organic…one rises with the sun, eats what you grow, live with those 16 families which make up your village, sing, dance and celebrate and grieve what life brings your way…and sleep when the sun sets. We from the western world might be tempted to take pity…but in fact there is something very rich about the life these folks live. They find happiness despite significant hardship and poverty or material goods.
And Polly…
I had the chance to share many cups of tea, and an evening and meal with Polly. On one of these occasions she told the story of her husbands recent death. Mike had heart disease, and died of congestive heart failure. Mike taught for 35 years at Makumbi mission, he and Polly raised their four children there. All four children have left Zimbabwe to make a living, 2 in Germany, one in Brazil, and one in Mozambique. This is a common reality now in Zimbabwe given the complete lack of employment opportunity, but runs counter cultural to traditional family life in Africa. Polly struggles with loneliness since Mike’s death one year ago. As we sat on straw mats in her one room dwelling she took me through the details of Mikes last days…as I embraced her and held her hand I realized the magnitude of our sameness… despite my whiteness and her blackness, despite my life of privilege and her life of poverty, despite my home in USA and hers in Africa…we were humans being touched by our willingness to be in relationship. I am unable to fully put into words the experience of sitting and holding Polly…it was powerful and deeply real and intimate.
So it is these moments that capture what it was like to live in Zimbabwe for a month…the stories are many…Sr Dominica, Thomas, Fungai, Sarah, Melody, Br Kizito, baby Jowa… Team Warthog… The orphan kids, Moses…the 500 youth singing…and my Tinotenda and life in L’Arche… so many memories
Thanks for bothering to plow through my ramblings…Thanks for the many ways you offer support and friendship…until my next trip…
OK I suck as a videographer...sorry Conway....so this is meant to be heard vs seen...caught some of the orphan kids dancing and singing just because...at the very end check out the little girl in white and pink at 2 & 1/2 she has much more rhythm than I will ever have
OK I suck as a videographer...sorry Conway....so this is meant to be heard vs seen...caught some of the orphan kids dancing and singing just because...at the very end check out the little girl in white and pink at 2 & 1/2 she has much more rhythm than I will ever have
